Having bought Gecko, I am looking at ground tackle.  When I looked up possible loads from winds and wave in a storm in The Complete Anchoring Handbook, I come up with a value approaching 5000lbs (although French, the author used mostly imperial units).  I looked up chain which has a corresponding working load, and he gives me 12mm, or half an inch.  That seems a bit chunky, but I don't have enough experience to quibble.  I never looked that closely at other boats' chains.  On the other hand, when I looked at windlasses, I found 10mm chain specified for anchors up to 25kg, which is rather heavier than required for Gecko, unless it's a Fisherman anchor.
Then I checked what sort of rode has the same working load.  For nylon, I find 30mm, or one and a quarter inch.  I think if I had seen that on a boat the size of Gecko (26ft, 8000lbs), I would have noticed.
So I ask once more for the advice of more experienced people.  What is reasonable?